A Saturday in Bloomsbury

With Sophie ending the week a bit under the weather, we weren’t sure what to expect from Saturday – so we kept our diaries clear and waited to see what the morning brought.  Thankfully, it brought a happy, healthy pair of children – and a dose of sunshine – so we decided on the spur of the moment to explore a part of London we’re not that familiar with: Bloomsbury.

It’s a while since we’ve been on a London adventure – and we started this one in dramatic fashion in the impressive surroundings of the British Museum.   The Great Court never fails to impress, and the children were thrilled at the large, open space and wide staircases to explore and run wild in (although not sure running is quite the done thing in the British Museum!)

Sophie wasn’t particularly impressed at being asked to stop running around for a photograph.  And how grown up is Alex looking here?!

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We decided to check out the Egyptian Gallery as our first foray in the Museum with children.  While, of course, impressive and fascinating, I must admit I found it highly stressful as every artefact on display was easily reachable by children and sporting a DO NOT TOUCH sign.  So I spent most of the time prevent the children touching ancient pieces!  We enjoyed spotting things we recognised in the hieroglyphics before escaping (I promise Alex didn’t actually touch this sarcophagus!)

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We quickly gave up trying to view the proper exhibition rooms – they’re just not geared up to inquisitive toddlers – and instead wandered back around the Great Court, loving the vivid colours of the contemporary totem poles on display there.

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We didn’t stay long, escaping to the grounds for a quick hotdog stop, before wandering over to a park I’ve wanted to visit for years – Coram’s Fields.  A 7 acre park dedicated to children’s play – where adults aren’t permitted unless accompanied by an Under-16, I can’t quite believe we’ve never been before!  We thought we’d stay for an hour, but ended up stopping for three!

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It felt so safe and secure, that the children were able to roam free, exploring the various playgrounds, sandpits, water play and even mini-farm.  They loved their first splash in a waterplay of the year, immediately getting soaked and sandy (the sign of a good day out, I think!)

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They slid down countless slides

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And climbed and climbed

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and dug as if they were back on the beach in Wales!  Alex immediately befriended all the children he came across, digging a vast trench around the sand pit with his new playmates:

CoramSandIt was such a wonderful place to spend an afternoon – complete with fabulous ice creams, a relaxed picnic and some time for us grownups to relax on a bench in the sun.  And it didn’t cost a penny (well, apart from the ice cream!)

I took the opportunity while the children were contentedly playing to pop round the corner to The Foundling Museum for a few minutes.  I’d seen the Museum, which explores the history of the Foundling Hospital, the UK’s first children’s charity and first public art gallery, on a documentary a while back, but never been there before.  I’d read they were celebrating the history of The Foundling Hospital Boys’ Band on Saturday with live big band music – and I wasn’t disappointed.  I loved the colourful deckchairs and bunting – it felt like a very British occasion!

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When we finally persuaded the children to leave Coram’s Fields, we walked up to St Pancras to catch our train home.
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We didn’t get home till 5pm – all completely exhausted but smiling from a wonderful London day together.  These are my favourite times in the capital – picking an area and checking out what we find when we get there.  Wonder which neighbourhood we’ll try next…

Siblings #4 {April}

I’m glad it’s time to write about my siblings this month, as I had one of those evenings last night where things didn’t go well between them!  After much bickering between them about who got the bubbly end of the bath (!), an elbow in the ribs from Alex saw Sophie wailing, and her big brother in a tantrum about being banished to bed early.  It wasn’t my finest parenting hour and left me feeling a bit down about how hard being a mum is and how I could have handled the situation better.

Thankfully, as Anne of Green Gables once said, “tomorrow is always fresh with no mistakes in it” – and everyone is back on top form this morning and our siblings enjoyed a good snuggle together on the sofa watching Thunderbirds soon after they were up!  And I’m enjoying looking back at photos of the pair of them from last weekend as it’s a good reminder that they are generally brilliant together.

We were back in Berkshire with my in-laws and the children were entertaining themselves on the swinging chair in their garden.  From inside the house, all I could hear were Sophie’s squeals of laughter and Alex giggling.  Alex was swinging his little sister high and making her laugh and laugh.  I should have recorded it as the sound was so joyful.

We grabbed the camera and tried to capture some photos – so these are my siblings in April.  I love Sophie’s face!

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Girly weekend

Just time for a quick post to try and catch up a bit.  A couple of weeks ago, I ended up hosting a bit of a girly weekend in Herne Hill. It wasn’t quite the same as the girly weekends I would have arranged of my youth, but there was still music, dancing, lots of yummy food and plenty of laughing!

My uni friend, Katharine, came to stay with her daughter Emilia.  It was a flying visit, but it was great fun catching up with Katharine – and better fun watching a friendship between our daughters develop!  Can’t wait to see them as they get older!

Sophie took her little friend to one of her favourite music classes – Bea’s Baby Bop – for a bit of a dance and sing.  They loved the shakers and musical instruments, and Sophie impressed us with her knowledge of all the songs and actions.

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We then headed up to the Horniman Museum – one of our favourite South London spots.  Our little ladies loved the aquarium, although a bit of an Alex tantrum curtailed our visit somewhat!

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But things went better in the wonderful music garden where we enjoyed the far reaching views of London and listening to the children being creative.

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After an afternoon trip to our local playground and a pizza making session, Katharine and Emilia headed back to Hampshire leaving us to enjoy a quiet family Sunday.  Or so we thought…

Very early on Sunday morning we had a call from a the mother of one of the children who share our childminder.  Due her second child, and with us as childcare backup in case of the sudden arrival of the baby, she was calling to say she was in labour!  So we collected Anna and adjusted our plans so we could look after her for the day while her mum went to hospital.

Alex and Sophie were delighted to have their friend over to play – and while the boys went to Brixton for Alex’s swimming lesson, us girls had a lovely time at the Brixton softplay and on the bus!

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We stopped in at Brockwell Park on the way home for a ride on the miniature railway – here are the girls sharing a seat on the train!  They were so proud of their tickets!

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We had a quiet afternoon at the local park, in our garden, and chilling out in front of “Frozen” with cookies.  Here’s my favourite picture – I love the drama on their faces (they’re watching the opening sequence of “Frozen” with the shipwreck!).  So engaged!

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So it turned into a very busy, but very fun girly weekend!

And we were thrilled to welcome baby Patrick into the world at the end of the weekend, and have the privilege of telling Anna she’d become a big sister.  What a day!

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I’ve just been sitting in bed with a cup of tea listening to my friend Bergin’s new album, “Blink”.  A theme throughout the album is change- and how it can creep up on you or happen in the blink of an eye – and it got me thinking about this past week and how it’s been one of those where you realise life is moving so quickly. [It’s a beautiful album by the way, go buy it!)

I’ve been much more aware of time since having children – you spend so much time checking off milestones and marvelling at how their growing and changing.  But this week a couple of things have happened that suddenly made me realise that a phase of my life is done.

On Thursday, we joined thousands of parents across the country in the tense wait for news of a primary school place – and at 5pm we discovered that Alex got a place at our first choice local school, Bessemer Grange.  It’s where he already goes to his little nursery and where lots of his friends will be going – so he’s delighted.  And it’s a wonderful school with really engaged teachers and great results, so we are too.

Once the excitement had died down (and the champagne drunk!), it suddenly hit me that my baby is starting school in just a few months.  Sometimes it feels like yesterday when he was handed to me in hospital and the conversations I had with Matt years ago about where we should move to so we could be close to good schools feel so recent.  I can vividly remember the emotions of leaving him for the first time with his childminder – four years ago!  And now we get ready for him to start his education journey, where our influence on him will diminish and he’ll start his own journey. As my team at work prepare materials for the Summer undergraduate open days, it makes me realise that I’m sure I’ll feel this way as he starts considering where to go to university!

Receiving his first class photograph this week highlighted the passing of time!

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And it wasn’t just Alex hitting the milestones this week.  Sophie made quite a change – moving out of her cotbed and into a proper “big girl bed”!  So I’m packing up the baby things – there is no longer a cot in my house and I’m about to bid farewell to the rocking chair that saw me through many night feeds and the changing table as we prepare to potty train Sophie.  We have no stairgates, no buggy and no highchair.  The baby years are truly behind us.

Matt commented yesterday that he’d been sitting chatting with Sophie during the week and suddenly had to do a double take – as his baby was sitting in skinny jeans and a tshirt, with her hair up and her face animated in conversation.  She’s not even a toddler now!

I took a few snaps yesterday of Sophie’s baby room (although her cot was already converted into a little bed so it isn’t quite as it was!) so I didn’t forget it.  We’re planning to put the duo into the same room soon – they’re so keen to share!  So this will become a grown up spare room!

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I tried not to make it too girly, but I don’t think I succeeded!

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Not the best pictures, but liking displaying her artwork and all her last birthday cards – plus a nod to her Welsh heritage!

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She’s delighted with her new bed and elephant covers – she couldn’t wait to go to sleep in it on Friday night (wonder how long she’ll enthusiastically go to bed!)

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Our Pembrokeshire adventure – part three {Fun with friends and family}

Now the blog revamp is out of the way, back to normal service! Finally getting round to the last instalment in our Pembrokeshire holiday summary (well, maybe not quite the end of it, but more on that later)!

One of the reasons we choose to holiday in Wales quite a bit (see 2011 and 2012) is that it enables us to catch up with a good number of friends and family while there and on the way.

Our first stop was Cheltenham, where we popped in to visit an old friend and former colleague, Eve, and her family.  It’s the perfect midway point and Alex and Sophie were delighted to get out of the car and explore Eve’s lovely garden.  Eve’s gorgeous daughters, Gabby and Imogen, were perfect hosts!.  Sophie, in particular, had a wonderful time playing with Immy!

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We broke the journey home from Tenby with a stop off in the beautiful village of Marshfield near Bath to visit another friend and former colleague, Amy.  The children hit if off immediately, enjoying their own private lunch table together and much silly giggling over their meal.

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We decided to let them burn of some energy with a walk around the village – and we all had fun following the Easter scarecrow trail!  The theme was heroes and villains and Alex loved spotting Darth Vadar, Spiderman, Superman and many others – including Bradley Wiggins – spotted below by Isla and Sophie!

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We delayed our return to London with a quick stop in the Midlands to spend Easter with my parents.  I think this may become an annual tradition as the local village Easter celebrations are great fun!  But before the village celebrations, we did a little Easter egg hunt in my parents’ garden.

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Our mini hunt provided enough chocolate to last ages, but we didn’t stop there!  We popped over to the neighbouring village – Blakesley – for their big egg hunt and duck race.  Alex and Sophie found plenty of chocolate along with the village children all over the playing fields before picking their ducks for the race.  Alex’s started very well, leading the race for a while, but sadly got stuck on a bank half way along!  Maybe next year…

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We worked off some of the chocolate with plenty of playing in the local park which has recently had lots of new play equipment installed. And the boys enjoyed a spot of rugby in the garden, although not sure Alex quite has the hang of it yet!

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Love this picture of the tired boys taking a break in Grandpa’s new shed.  Alex appears to have forgotten to pick up his drink before saying “Cheers”!

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We finished Easter Day with a family roast – rubbish photo, but happy memory as the children were really well behaved and the food delicious!

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Our final stop in the long journey home was with our NCT friends, Dan and Bryony in Oxfordshire.  With the weather properly sunny and warm, we met for a picnic and play at beautiful Blenheim Palace.  It seemed most of the population of central England had had the same idea, so it was completely packed – and by the time we’d made our way from the overflow carpark to the entrance, we were already ready for lunch!  So we found a clear spot of grass and enjoyed a leisurely picnic and catch up, cramming 6 months of catching up into a couple of hours.

We managed to navigate the maze, climb a tree or two and grab and ice cream before getting back on the road for the last push to London.

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I mentioned at the start of this post that there may be yet more to share from our Pembrokeshire holiday…  For the first time, we tried to take a bit of video footage of our trip, so I may be able to share a little holiday film.  Watch this space…

Bicentennial blog

cake_birthday_13816009I’m not sure I had much of a long-term vision for my blog when I started it up nearly 5 years ago as we prepared to welcome Alex into the world. I knew I wanted to share photos and stories, largely for my family who live around the world and therefore wouldn’t be able to witness every stage of Alex’s development in person.  But I certainly didn’t imagine I’d still be blogging as he prepares to begin school and that I’d have managed to write 200 posts about our family life!

To mark this milestone, I’ve given the blog a bit of a facelift! I’ve contemplated changing its name for a while as I really regretted putting our surname into the overall title and URL – so I’ve finally taken the plunge and, thanks to feedback from friends on Facebook, this is now “Diary of a Herne Hill mum“. Of course, it’s not hard to figure out who we are, but I hope making it more anonymous will make it just a little harder to find if Sophie is one day running for Prime Minister or Alex is a celebrity!

I’ve also sorted out a proper URL – so it’s now the easier to remember www.hernehillmum.com.  How professional looking!

I’ve got lots of more I want to do to improve it, but this’ll do for now.  I hope you like it – do let me know what you think!

Looking back over the past 200 posts, I can lose hours to happy memories and am amazed at how much we’ve done and how much the children have changed.

It all started with us sharing the first scan pictures of Alex and then his arrival in the world in September 2010.  The shock of the first three months saw almost nothing on the blog and I nearly didn’t carry it on, but I picked it up in January 2011 with a little post and a video of a giggling baby Alex that never fails to make me smile.

I’m so glad I carried on with the blog.  I love remembering all the things we’ve done, from our ordinary weekends in London, to our holiday adventures, and some of the big milestones like the arrival of little SophieAlex and Sophie turning one year old and my returning to work.

Moving forward, I hope to try and participate in more online initiatives like the Siblings Project, Me and Mine and others – I love the impetus it gives me to try and capture particular things in pictures.  And of course, I’ll carry on writing about our normal life (at least until the children are too embarrassed to let me!)…

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Thanks for reading

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Our Pembrokeshire adventure – part two {Beach fun}

We chose Tenby as a holiday destination as we were keen for the children to experience a truly British seaside holiday!  Considering how much I love the coast, they’ve spent very little time playing around on a beach (although they are regulars in our local sandpits!).  With the weather forecast dire, I was nervous our trip to Wales was going to be a complete washout, and we were going to have to forgo the beach for the local softplays.

Our first two attempts at beachtime were somewhat disastrous – with Sophie immediately falling in a freezing cold rockpool within minutes of arriving on the first trip, and Alex walking too far into the incoming tide and being soaked to the waist on our second trip.

Buy things improved substantially after that, and we enjoyed hours of coastal fun over our week in Tenby!  It’s a stunning spot on a beautiful coastline – we loved the beautifully painted buildings around the harbour (and took a ridiculous number of photos of them!)

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I’m so glad we visited off season – we had the beaches almost to ourselves and the peace and quiet was such a treat after the bustle of London.  I’d love to have a holiday home here – like the lucky people who purchased and developed the old lifeboat station shown below and featured on one of my favourite Channel4 “Grand Designs”!

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Nothing clears your head better than some fresh air and the sound of the sea

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The children weren’t quite so interested in peace and quiet – finding the beach one enormous playground!  Of course, Alex made a beeline for any stone he could lay his hands on, throwing as many as possible into the waves.

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And we all enjoyed some clambering and climbing on the rocks and in the caves.

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Sophie had a permanent grin on her face on the beach – just love these pictures of her looking so full of joy and life

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She followed Alex everywhere, copying everything he did.  Here are my gorgeous siblings closely inspecting little rock pools together.

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Alex helped Sophie climb into a little cave where they posed for a cheesy sibling photo – I love how he’s looking at his little sister here.

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When you’re 2 and 4, the best thing about the beach are the waves – we spent ages splashing in our wellies and running away from the tide – they literally screamed with laughter.

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Here’s Sophie following Alex again!

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We, of course, spend many hours digging and building sandcastles – it was fun watching Alex directing Sophie in their construction project, which seemed to involve digging a river, lake and dam.

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They worked so hard – and roped in Daddy as a helper when it got too tiring!

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We were lucky enough to bump into a photographer who kindly took a few family portraits of us – they make me giggle everytime I see them.

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And unusually I handed over the camera and Matt snapped some pics of me with the children

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We loved the beach views from Tenby’s Castle Hill, where there were canons to climb on and massive hills to roll down!

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We were keen to get out on the water, and were thrilled to find that the first boat trip of the 2015 season took place during our stay.  So we headed out on a Seal Safari to explore the shoreline of nearby Caldey Island, home to lots of seabirds and seals.  Sophie loved it, not minding the sea swell and the freezing cold wind!

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We were lucky enough to see a fair number of seals who were fairly inquisitive, having not seen a boatload of tourists for months!

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What a week!  I’m still finding sand in random places, and the car smells somewhat fishy after all the shells the children collected, but we had such an amazing time, I don’t mind.  Can’t wait to get to Cornwall in May for more seaside fun.

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Our Pembrokeshire adventure – part one {Farm fun}

We’ve had such an adventure this Easter, it’s going to take me a few blog posts to get through the hundreds of photographs we’ve taken and memories we’ve made.

Perhaps unwisely, given the usual wet weather in March/April in Wales, we opted to spend a week off at Easter renting a cottage in Tenby, Pembrokeshire.  The forecast when we arrived made us think we’d made a terrible mistake, but thankfully, most of the wet and windy weather came at night and we had enough clear weather to enjoy some amazing experiences out in the fresh air.

We had quite a farm themed series of days during our trip – taking advantage of the close proximity to the brilliant Folly Farm.  It was the perfect location for a couple of visits – with a vast outdoor park featuring everything from lions to giraffes to penguins.  Sophie loved meeting the monkeys – and they seemed to like her panda, Buddy:

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We met a giant tortoise and a giraffe that was even taller than daddy:

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And the “Pride of Pembrokeshire” – a family of lions who didn’t look too bothered by the cool temperatures of Wales!

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As well as the animals, there were loads of really toddler friendly ride ons and games.  Alex and Matt thoroughly enjoyed driving mini diggers (I think Matt may have enjoyed it even more than Alex!)

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And they both loved racing around a track together.  Sophie was less than impressed to watch her beloved “Buddy” speeding around in the race car:

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Sophie was more enthused by the Big Wheel – and we took the opportunity to get a cheesy selfie!

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When the rain set in during the afternoon, we headed indoors to the vast barns which were filled with farm animals and more rides.  Sophie loved meeting more chickens and Alex got to milk a goat!

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Sophie even milked a pretend cow

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It’s a great spot – I feared it would be super busy and really tacky – but it was really well thought out and so large, it never felt busy.  I suspect it might be a different story in the middle of August!  The children loved the farm so much that we made the most of the special offer to get half price tickets if you visit twice in a week!

We had another animal themed day while visiting our friends on The Gower – Luke and Laura, and their lovely children Isla and Taliesin.  We enjoyed a good catch up, delicious lunch and windy trip to the local playground – but for Alex and Sophie, the absolute highlight was meeting the resident chickens!  We were very impressed with the hen house Luke had constructed for them and it was great to see them roaming around the garden exploring.

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I’ll be surprised if the chickens lay for a few days until they recover from being chased, stroked and overfed by our pair!

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Our final farm adventure of our Pembrokeshire week was a visit to Matt’s family in Nantgaredig in the hills of Carmarthenshire.  His cousins both farm – and we visited Godor Farm, where his cousin Ian and his family now have sheep and cows.  Matt spent most of his childhood Christmas holidays on the Farm where his mother grew up, and after not visiting for nearly three years, jt was a real pleasure to come back and introduce Sophie to the Howell family.

It is such a beautiful spot and we made the most of the dry weather to explore as much of the farm as possible:

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It’s right in the middle of the lambing season and we were lucky enough to meet (and cuddle) lots of the tiny newborn lambs!

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The children got stuck in, going into the orphan lamb ben and stroking as many as they could reach.

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We were unbelievably lucky and got to witness a lamb bring born from this first time mum!  The children were not at all phased by the blood (although Alex did comment that it looked a bit sore for the mummy sheep!).  We were super impressed by Muriel – who spotted the ewe in labour, stripped off her coat, calmly delivered the lamb, administered worming medication, washed her arms and then continued our farm tour!  We’re a little bit in awe!

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After the lambing sheds, we visited the herds of cattle – and got to meet two beautiful calves who were less than 24 hours old.  We didn’t get very close to them as their mums were very protective!

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After a quick stop off visiting the chickens (and collecting eggs which we enjoyed for our breakfast today!), we were introduced to the farm machinery.  After the mini diggers at Folly Farm, Alex couldn’t believe his luck when he got to drive a real one with Ian!  They attempted, thankfully unsuccessfully, to scoop up a chicken and hammered some rocks into the mud.

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Matt and Sophie kept their distance!

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We thought Ian and Muriel were joking when they suggested we got into a trailer behind their quad bike – but they were completely serious, wanting to show us the fields where the older lambs were.  So off we went, bumping around the estate and getting seriously muddy!

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Alex and Sophie even got turns on the quad bike driving with Ian, who enjoyed pretending we’d broken down while crossing the river, encouraging Alex to get out and push!

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When we stopped to meet Sid and Martha, the resident donkeys, and the children had a good clamber on the quad – I think they’ll be wanting to spend their school holidays at Godor as well!

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After all the excitement outside, and a delicious salmon lunch cooked by superwoman Muriel, we snuggled up by the fire and she and her youngest son – William – introduced Alex to jenga!  We caught up with Matt’s Auntie Margaret (one of my top blog visitors!) and other cousin, Sue, who’d popped in to say hello and deliver Easter eggs to the children.

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It was a truly wonderful day.  We don’t get to Nantgaredig often enough – but when we make it, we never fail to enjoy every minute with this incredibly warm and welcoming family. We won’t wait another three years to return.

Here’s a very happy family Agar!

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